On bullying and harassment.

 

(the second video has a french line at the end that translates to "A day at work doesn't look like this. What about a day at school?" Unfortunately, I do fear that some workplaces are truly like that for a few... )

Bullying has such a drastic effect on youth on their mental health development that stay with the poor child forever. The scars won't ever wash away no matter how harshly you scrub. Perhaps the memories will fade one day but the imprints are forever. The bullied and bullies might sadly develop illnesses such as depression or anxiety in their later life, especially with bouts of low self-esteem. Emotional, physical, verbal, sexual, domestic; all forms of abuse correlates to psychological health issues.

There are hardly any positive outcomes for bullying for either the perpetrator or the victim. We might be inspired by one's struggles and see hope in the future, but wouldn't it be so much better if bullying were just avoided altogether? I feel that if we can explain to our children more just what counts as bullying. Everyone knows to "not bully", but how many bullies are there right now that don't even know that they're doing anything wrong?

I just.. I imagine a child, a teen, or an adult living in constant fear of seeing their abuser. They might feel anticipation and dread at their next encounter, wishing in private that they'll leave their life soon. Or perhaps they feel that they're obligated to help whomever is harassing them. What if even one if blind to the actions of the bullies?

Cases of bullying are not always black and white. It differs in its complexity but the gist is still the same: There is pain.